wenn ich so fragen darf
if you don't mind my asking; if I may put it that way
adverb VEN ikh zo FRAH-gen DARF Rare
Also means
if I may ask
Usage Note
Wenn ich so fragen darf is a deferential parenthetical that hedges a personal or sensitive question: Wie viel verdienen Sie, wenn ich so fragen darf? It acknowledges the potentially intrusive nature of the enquiry. More formal and more hedged than darf ich fragen; common in interviews and polite professional dialogue.
Examples
"Wie haben Sie das gemeint, wenn ich so fragen darf?"
Natural Translation
What did you mean by that, if you don't mind my asking?
Literal Translation
How have you that meant, if I so ask may?
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